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Many men come to this website and to a new and better way of thinking, after great hardship. Divorce, broken relationships, abuse by the system and by society itself all leave indelible marks on men’s lives. Our experience teaches us that we better learn to take care of ourselves.

In 1943 Abraham Maslow, an industrial psychologist first introduced the concept of a “hierarchy of needs.” This hierarchy culminates in self-actualization, the psychological pinnacle of man’s existence.

This is where the idea of “Going Red Pill” shines. Free of unhealthy, destructive myths about women (and about ourselves) we reembark on life’s journey with the knowledge and tools to rise like a Phoenix from the ashes. We put ourselves on the path of becoming the men we choose to be over what society and women choose for us. We enjoy the freedom to evolve into our best selves.

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