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Its time to talk about men’s needs, and encourage them to carve out some self-actualized living.

Self-actualization and the Red Pill

Its time to talk about men’s needs, and encourage them to carve out some self-actualized living.

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Part 3 of Paul's series on romantic love.

For Real Love to Emerge, Romantic Love Must Die – Part 3

Part 3 of Paul’s series on romantic love.

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Part II on what to do about Romantic Love.

For Real Love to Emerge, Romantic Love Must Die – Part 2

Part II on what to do about Romantic Love.

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Some thoughts on love and neurochemicals

For Real Love to Emerge, Romantic Love Must Die – Part 1

Some thoughts on love and neurochemicals

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Many acts of chivalry are rolling the dice with your life.

Chivalry: A Learned Death Wish

Many acts of chivalry are rolling the dice with your life.

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A welcome message from Paul

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A welcome message from Paul

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Men are often called 'human doings.' The self-actualized man strives to experience 'human being.'

Self-Actualization: Where ‘Being’ Compliments Doing

Men are often called ‘human doings.’ The self-actualized man strives to experience ‘human being.’

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A good place to start for understanding what's important.

A Primer on Hypergamy

A good place to start for understanding what’s important.

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A brief look at the sadness of the modern male role.

Servant, Slave and Scapegoat

A brief look at the sadness of the modern male role.

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Red Pill awareness challenges every man to confront and overcome isolation.

Red Pill Isolation

Red Pill awareness challenges every man to confront and overcome isolation.

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Men need not ask for their space. They simply need to create it.

Male Space is an Inside Job

Men need not ask for their space. They simply need to create it.

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Families shape our lives, and not always in the way we want.

Playing Your Own Role in Life

Families shape our lives, and not always in the way we want.

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Want to get married some day? You might want to think again.

11 More Reasons Not to Marry

Want to get married some day? You might want to think again.

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Gynocentrism. A dictionary definition alone won't suffice.

Understanding Gynocentrism

Gynocentrism. A dictionary definition alone won’t suffice.

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If feminists are stupid, why are they so powerful? Answers and more here.

The Eight Laws Governing Men and Women

If feminists are stupid, why are they so powerful? Answers and more here.

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One thing is certain. It's better for men to approach all women with an eye on the gynocentrism.

A Values-Centered Approach to Gynocentrism for Men

One thing is certain. It’s better for men to approach all women with an eye on the gynocentrism.

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Paul with some thoughts on men, women and happiness.

Why Men are Happier Than Women

Paul with some thoughts on men, women and happiness.

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